I meet many young boys who come to me and seek advice because they have wasted several years of their lives doing nothing.

Many boys nowadays don’t have a strong role model that can help them understand what society is all about and how to become a man.

I have seen many boys falling into the trap of frustration, depression, stress, and mental illness because of not getting the right advice from their surroundings.

Why does this happen??

Because of the toxic environment, no challenges, feminine perspective of life, no strong male role model, lack of guidance, no winning attitude, etc.

A lot of boys are so busy supporting females and feminism that they lose focus on growing with their masculinity.

I don’t say that all girls/women are wrong, but you have to understand the difference between High-quality girls and Low-quality girls.
Remember,

THE ENERGY YOU WASTE ON CONNECTING WITH LOW-QUALITY GIRLS DAMAGES YOUR MASCULINITY.

Let’s be clear here about why I have decided to discuss all this over here: as a boy/man, you must understand your responsibilities as a man.

A boy who can not manage himself is never going to manage anything at all…
Your journey to become a man is not so easy because its the most difficult transformation that you have to do for yourself.

Women are born, and Men are Made.

And to become a Man, you have to learn the lessons that help you to become a man

Lessons for boys to become a Man:

1. Set the standard Goals for yourself
2. Focus on Goals
3. Reading Books
4. Hitting the Gym
5. Cutting down all the Toxic Relations
6. Prioritize yourself
7. Learn New Skills
8. Challenge yourself every day with Difficult Tasks
9. Conquer all your Fears
10. Become a Monster

1. Set the standard goals for yourself:

The First step to becoming a man is to set the standard goals for yourself that keep challenging you and make you unstoppable because this is what man does. Don’t set goals that are too easy to achieve; this is a sign that you are too weak to become a man.

Setting standard goals for yourself helps you to become much stronger in a journey to achieve it. Your goals are something that can help you to become a man.

Do not think of yourself lower, weaker, or average guy if you want to become a man.

“Always think of yourself as a Monster/Roaring lion that can achieve anything and conquer everything in this world.”

2. Focus on your Goals:

Write your goals on your wall, in your journal, on your phone, in your daily notes, etc., so that you can keep reminding yourself that you have to achieve this no matter what. This way, you can remain focused on fulfilling your goals.

“There are too many distractions in this world, but one who ignores all these distractions and remains focused on their goals are the true monsters.”

No matter what type of distractions and challenges you encounter, you have to train yourself to remain focused on your goals and never give up!

3. Reading Books:

One of the biggest life lessons I have learned is from the books. And I guarantee you books give humans a superpower of intelligence that helps them achieve their goals easily. One of the biggest life lessons that I have learned from reading books is…

“Saying “no” to the world can be really hard, but sometimes it’s the only way to say “yes” to your art and your sanity.”

On your way to becoming a man, books will help you become the man that society wants and help you to learn important life lessons.

4. Hitting the Gym:

In a journey to become a man from a boy, you need to be strong physically because that is something that can emerge your mascunality. Hit the gym and keep your body in shape and become stronger physically, but remember to keep your body in shape.

“Without going to the gym, you can not be able to become a strong man, so like it or not this is what you have to do.”

You don’t have to become a bodybuilder, but you just have to keep your body in shape and become a physically strong individual.

5. Cutting down all the Toxic Relations:

Cut down all the toxic relationships, whether it’s your friends, girlfriend, relatives, or even your close ones. The toxic relations make you suffer from the pain that damages your inner happiness and physical health.

You have to understand that no one in this life is more important than yourself because everyone stays because of their own needs from you. So, cut down all the toxic relations and make your life healthier.

“A healthy relationship doesn’t drag you down. It Inspires you to be better.”

6. Prioritize yourself:

Prioritize your needs, your comfort, your life, your goals, etc., in short, prioritize yourself always because as long as you know your value, no one in the world can use you for their needs and disappear from your life when they are done with you.

Prioritizing yourself will help you to understand how much potential you have to achieve your goals, so keep going and make yourself proud.
Remember the famous web series suits quote from Harvey specter,

“Ever loved someone so much, that you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that person yourself and do whatever the hell you want.”

7. Learn New Skills:

Learn new skills that help you to grow as an individual. There are so many men learning and improving new skills everyday and if you want to stand out in the market, you must keep up with the competition by learning new skills and improving your skills.

Spare some extra time from your routine to learn a new skill so that you can easily level up your skills as an individual and enhance your power as a man.

8. Challenge yourself every day with Difficult Tasks:

Set difficult tasks for yourself and challenge yourself to achieve those tasks within the deadline. Make sure you set difficult tasks every day for yourself so that you can improve yourself and level up each day by achieving those difficult tasks.

Challenges help you to become a strong man and learn something new from each challenge; this is why challenges are always important for us as a man.

“Challenge yourself with difficult tasks and fight back. Be brutal, be tough.”

9. Conquer all your Fears:

You need to overcome the fear of anything you have as a man, conquer all your fear and become an unstoppable beast. If you can overcome fear, you can achieve any battle or war that you have encountered in the first place.

Remove the word fear from your dictionary and become an unstoppable beast by acquiring the energy of manliness.

“Dangers bring fears, and fears bring more dangers.”

10. Become a Monster:

Become a Monster in almost everything that you do, don’t stop until the job gets done by you. Becoming a monster helps you get the job done more easily and easily conquer all the tasks you have at hand.

You have to become a deadly monster to achieve your goals, and this is how you will turn into a man from boy, so remember to be focused on your goals and keep going no matter what…

“There is a monster sleeping in all of us; wake him up.”