Masculinity 101 - VJGOINGSOLO

16Dec, 2022

Learn How to Develop a Mindset that Can Help you Win at Everything…

You might have heard that your Mindset will help you achieve anything or everything you want in your life; if you think of yourself as weak, you will become weaker; if you think of yourself as a powerful person, you will end up becoming a powerful person.

If you do not have a strong mindset, you will not finish because the Mindset will assist you in achieving all your goals.

Redpill: “Society/government doesn’t want you to be powerful, which is why they bound you with rules and regulations, which makes you a slave to the system.”

Now, you have to choose how you are going to make it to the finish line…
– Following rules and regulations (Involves being a slave to the system)
– By Escaping the Matrix (You are the King of your Kingdom)

Both options involve their own risks and rewards; however, once you choose one option, you will find an answer that
If you have chosen the first option, then I will assume you are ready to become a slave your whole life, and yes, you can also make it to the finish line with this option, but it will cut down superior years from your life, and you will regret spending your life just to being a slave for the society, banks, government, etc.

The biggest regret you will have in your last years of life is giving your prime and superior years to the 9-5 jobs, society, banks, and government.
Choose Wisely,

If you have chosen the second option, welcome to the game man
This is your time to shine and Create the life you want for yourself

Now, understand this you have to develop a mindset that will make you a winner.
How to develop this Mindset well is up to you to think and make your own Mindset.

However, I am going to give you an example of how I am developing my Mindset (which I call ruthless mentality) to win at everything and escape from the matrix.

I am that 9-5 guy, a slave of society, banks, government, corrupt system, etc.

But I have had enough of this so I started following successful people like Elon musk, mike Tyson, Andrew tate, Kobe Bryant, etc. and I found that all that they’ve in common is that urge to win Mindset, which is why they all ended up becoming a winner.

These Guys won at everything, and they truly believe that it is because of their Mindset…

Elon Musk called his Success a Matter of Mindset
Kobe Bryant Called his Success Mamba Mentality
Mike Tyson Called his Mindset Psychopathic Warrior Mentality
Andrew Tate called his success the Cobra mentality

So I am on my way to developing a mentality that will help me achieve my goals and escape from the matrix.

The Ruthless Mentality:

– Never Settle for Anything less than Great
– I Can’t Afford to Lose (Losing is not Okay)
– 100% Self Control
– 100% Street Fighting Strength Capacity
– Never Stop Learning
– Don’t Fear anything Except God
– Never take rest, keep going, keep working

I am on my journey to become the greatest man my bloodline has ever seen…

Develop a Ruthless Mentality(Winning Mindset):

Never Settle for Anything less than Great:

No matter if it is an exam, street fight, video game, bike race, or just normal political arguments, never settle for anything less than great give your 100% to win at everything.

You have to have a winning mindset to keep winning at everything, and if you are ready to settle for anything lesser than great, you won’t be able to win at everything.

Don’t settle for anything less than great if you want to become great and want to win in every aspect of your life.

I Can’t Afford to Lose(Losing is not Okay):

There is a wrong saying that society has told all young boys today that losing is okay and okay to be an average person.

“NO LOSING IS NOT OKAY AND BEING AN AVERAGE PERSON WON” T HELP YOU TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS.”

You can’t afford to lose, any matter the consequences; if you think it is okay to lose, it is time to break the urge to win.

100% Self Control:

If you have no self-control over your communication, body language, actions, etc., you will invite more trouble for yourself. The game is to develop a ruthless mindset with the wittiest mentality.

“The wittiest you are, the more in self-control you will become and create a healthy, happy environment around you which will make people attracted by you.”

Think you are the wittiest, and you have mastered a self-control practice of giving the wittiest replies in awkward situations so that you become more powerful as an individual.

100% Street Fighting Strength Capacity:

This isn’t talked about enough people will convince you to avoid fights and conflicts. They make you believe that you will be safe if you avoid fight and conflict, but this isn’t true.

Because society today is facing a lot of conflicts, wars, and struggles where if you are not strong enough, you can’t stand a sight to protect your family and friends.

Make sure you practice street fighting and hit the gym to become capable of fighting anyone at any time, which will boost your confidence and you will have the ability to fight the strongest enemy, great wars, and real battles in life.

Never Stop Learning, working, Developing:

If you stop at any point in your life from working, learning, or developing, the guy who doesn’t do that will surpass you and become more powerful and stronger than you.

So never stop learning, working, and developing yourself to become a more powerful and strong individual that everyone can look forward to.

Always think of yourself as a king who leads, directs, and develops a life, business, body, social circle where everyone wants in, but only a quality person can enter your life because that makes you more powerful.

No matter if you are injured, sick, or feel like shit, there is always something you can do while being injured or sick choose your work wisely and when you become completely healthy move forward to dominate your path, your mission, your goals like a king.

Don’t Fear anything Except God:

If you are scared of anything, you are not going to make it to the finish line as a man, don’t fear anything, no matter what it is; learn how to overcome all your fears and work for your goals and dominate your path like a pro.

If you are being scared of anything, that will make you weaker, weaker and weaker, but if you overcome your fear and ready to fight anything or anyone, you will become an unstoppable beast.

But always remember the true God you believe in and believe in karma this will help you go far in life and dominate your path to conquer your goals.

Never take rest, keep going, keep working:

As a man, you can not afford to take rest 8 hours of sleep is enough to maintain your health, but if you sleep more than that and always look out for complaints and excuses, you will not be able to make it out to the finish line.

Your biggest advantage as a man is to keep working because that’s what makes a man happy, relaxed and peaceful.

While if you look at those lazy, broke, and loser men, they always seem to have anxiety, depression, stress, etc.,, which makes them weaker and weaker.

Understand this and keep working for your goals and mission to conquer your path and become the man everyone wants to be around with.

30Sep, 2022

How to Become Strong Emotionally as a Man?

If you are one of the people who struggle emotionally and get frustrated, this article is especially for you.

Society is producing a lot of nice guys and making the world most women-centric; these nice guys are seeking women’s approval to make themselves believe that their chosen path is the right one.

Let me give you an example over here so that you can understand the game more easily.

“Women like to friend zone all the nice guy who is too much of nice and sensitive have you ever heard from a woman that you are a very good person, and any girl would be lucky to have you, but she will never choose to be with you.”

Because women don’t like the men who are too nice and don’t know where they are going and always seek approval from women.

The line that almost every woman said to nice guys worldwide is ruining men’s life and emotional intelligence.

The Most Dangerous line

“You are a very nice guy, and any woman would be lucky to have you, but I can not be with you.”

If you hear this line from any women
1. Block Her
2. Hit the Gym
2. Pursue your Goal
3. Become a Better and Kickass version of yourself
4. Don’t let your emotion being played by any women

10 Tips to Become Emotionally Strong:

If you are on a path to becoming a strong man emotionally, you must follow these hard rules and strategies to make yourself emotionally strong and train your mind to become stronger.

1. Eliminate Your Addictions
2. Be Involved in Physical Activity
3. Communicate with your inner self on any Topic
4. Work in Pressure
5. Observe the Situation and Learn
6. Keep Practicing Healthy Arguments
7. Challenge yourself
8. Overcome your Fear
9. Have Positive Confidence
10. Practice being alone and capable of doing everything on your own

1. Eliminate all your Addictions:

You have to eliminate every addition you might have to make your focus on your goals and how you want to achieve that so that you can direct your focus and dedication toward your goals and achieve that with ease.

All types of addictions make your life miserable and break your energy from the inside, which is why it is important for you to cut down on all your addictions to become emotionally strong.

Video games, masturbation, stalking women, binge-watching movies/web series, etc., are bad addiction that damages you more than anything in your life.

You must cut down all your addiction and make a proper lifestyle for yourself to become emotionally and mentally strong.

2. Be Involved in Physical Activity:

You have to be involved in any type of physical activity to become mentally and emotionally strong; once you get involved in physical activity, it trains your mind to become hard and think strong, which is why doing physical activity awesomely trains your mind.

Make sure you get involved in physical activity like gym, sports, running, and healthy fighting so that you can train your mind to become emotionally and mentally strong.

Physical activity makes you strong physically and emotionally because physical activity also helps your mind train harder and become strong.

You have to be involved in physical activities and train yourself hard to impact your physical body and strengthen your emotional intelligence.

3. Communicate with your inner self on any Topic:

You have to make a habit of talking to yourself and arguing on a current topic and creating healthy arguments with yourself. Arguing with your inner self makes you understand the two different views of one story and become strong mentally and emotionally with these mental exercises.

If you need to strengthen your mental and emotional abilities, you must argue with yourself daily on different topics, news, products, stories, books, etc. this way; you can understand how you can learn more than two perspectives, and your mind will be able to analyze any situation in two different ways so that you can better understand what might be the best choice for you.

4. Work under Pressure:

Train your mind to work under pressure and deliver the best of you. This way, you can strengthen your mental and emotional abilities effectively. Once you can train yourself to work under pressure, you can make things work out for you as well because you have learned how to give the best of yourself under pressure.

If you know how to work under pressure, you can deal with any situation by remaining calm and giving the best of yourself at difficult times, which is why you have to train yourself to work under pressure and give the best results.

5. Observe the Situation and Learn:

Train your mind to observe the situation and learn from it so that it can be useful to you in any situation. There are plenty of usual and unusual things happening all around you. If you care to look all around you, you can observe and learn from this situation.

You can observe situations and learn from them so that it helps your mind to learn more about what is happening around you and how you can tackle it in the first place. If your mind learns about these things and observes properly, it will find plenty of solutions to tackle anything like that, making you emotionally and mentally strong.

6. Keep Practicing Healthy Arguments:

You have to keep practicing healthy arguments in order to train your mind to keep practicing healthy arguments with friends, family, relatives, etc., so that you can easily make yourself capable of participating in healthy arguments and learn how to win arguments for your belief system.

Once you learn to make healthy and logical arguments, you can easily train your mind to fight back in any arguments to support your belief system. Your belief system is something that tells all about yourself and your identity; this is why you have to stand up for what you are. This is why you have to keep practicing healthy arguments.

7. Challenge Yourself:

You have to challenge yourself to keep your mind trained for the struggle and competition you might encounter on your way. You have to challenge yourself to train your mind to become strong in every aspect. Constantly put yourself in trouble so that if you encounter any bad situation or course of the event, you have a strong mindset that can be able to handle the situation like a pro.

Challenging yourself will give you the ultimate energy to find out and figure out everything on your own and learn to handle any conflict course of events or situations.

8. Overcome your Fear:

You must overcome your fear and make sure you can make everything go your way. For example, if you fear taking risks, take unlimited risks until you overcome that fear. If you fear heights, go to the higher places more often until you overcome that fear, and this is how you can train your mind to become more powerful and strong.

Eliminating your fear will help you make everything turn around your way, and you can be capable of handling yourself if you encounter any of the fear that comes your way and also; it will also make your mind strong and powerful.

9. Have Positive Confidence:

You have to build positive confidence in yourself so that you can easily train your mind to tackle all your conflicts and course of events. Your confidence will help you to become strong emotionally and mentally, so you have to think straight and positively to become strong emotionally.

Once you direct your confidence positively, you can easily understand and make things work out for you, and you know how to handle everything on your own while remaining calm and centered.

10. Practice being Alone and Capable of Doing everything on your Own:

You have to practice being alone so that you can become an unstoppable beast. If you become a lone wolf who can do everything on his own, you can eventually end up setting up your strong and powerful mindset.

You have to learn to be alone and keep figuring out everything on your own so that you become stronger and more powerful, which will help your mindset become stronger.

23Aug, 2022

Why is it Important for you to Develop a Warrior Mindset as a Man?

There are so many lies society tells you to give an upper hand to feminism and create a world where you find a lot of nice guys and soft men, which is affecting society, but these effects are rarely seen or addressed by anyone.

If you want to know what I mean, then understand this way,

As a man, we have to protect the people, and region, fight the war, and conquer the beast and monsters. You need to do this as a man and become a powerful individual, but if you are a soft man or a nice guy, you won’t be able to do any of this.

I am not saying that it is bad for you to be a nice guy, but if you are a nice guy, you will eventually become a guy with a soft and kind heart which doesn’t help you become a powerful individual.

“Men Raised by women are a disaster for this society, and the effects will not be seen immediately, but it will destroy the real manhood and passion of being a man.”

As a man, you need to develop a warrior mindset to set a clear vision for yourself and grow further without any second doubt in yourself.

Let’s learn about why you develop a warrior mindset as a man…

10 Reasons for you to Develop a Warrior Mindset as a Man:

1. To Believe in yourself
2. To Control your Thoughts
3. To be emotionally intelligent
4. To Conquer Everything
5. Overcome your Fear
6. Become Powerful with Positive Energy
7. To Develop a Manliness Attitude

1. To Believe in Yourself:

As a man, if you develop a warrior mindset, there will be no second doubt in yourself, and you can achieve everything you want once you believe in yourself.

Society pushes men to behave way more nicely and softly with everyone and not take a stand for their own thoughts and beliefs, which is affecting every man and society itself.

“Reality hits you when you realize you can not win anything if you don’t believe in yourself and work hard for the things you want to achieve.”

2. To Control your Thoughts:

When you develop a warrior mindset, you can easily control your thoughts and emotion and not get carried away by anything.

In this modern era, a lot of men are getting carried away by emotion and thoughts, which makes them trapped in unnecessary drama, faulty situations, and toxic relationships.

Once you learn to control your thoughts and emotion, you can easily avoid all this and become a better version of yourself.

3. To be Emotionally Intelligent:

Emotions play mind games that no one can easily understand and overcome, and because of this, many men are trapped in depression, stress, and anxiety.

But the man who learns to manage his behavior and feelings to achieve his goals will become an emotionally intelligent person.

If you learn to manage your feelings and prioritize your goals and, more important things, you will learn to behave as an emotionally intelligent person.

4. To Conquer Everything:

If you develop a warrior mindset, you can easily conquer everything: fight, war, battle, or your personal goals.

“A man with a Warrior Mindset is an Unstoppable Beast.”

As a man, you have to learn to fight battles and wars, which is why you have to become an unstoppable beast; without this, you won’t be able to conquer everything.

5. Overcome Fear:

A Warrior mindset will help you overcome fear and move forward toward your goals without worrying about anything; you can walk fearlessly like a monster.

Your fear is something that will stop you from doing the brightest and mightiest things; this is why you need to overcome your fear.

“Once you overcome your fear, no strength in this world can stop you from achieving what you want from your life.”

6. Become Powerful with Positive Energy:

If you develop a warrior mindset, you will become powerful with a warrior mindset, and positive energy will set you on fire to achieve your goals.

“Men are all about Power, Strength, and Positive Energy.”

But if you do not possess a warrior mindset, you can not become truly powerful with great energy, which is why you must need to develop a warrior mindset and challenging goals for yourself as a man.

7. To Develop a Manliness Attitude:

A warrior mindset is a sign of a manliness attitude and positive energy. If you do not have anything but a warrior mindset as a man, you can achieve everything you want with ease.

If you are ready to work hard and practice a warrior mindset, you will be easily able to achieve greater height with the consistency of putting hard work and smart work together.

15Aug, 2022

10 Masculine Qualities you need to have as a Men

Not all Boys can become a man.

It is all about the willingness to learn, focus and conquer. Not all boys can do that.
Well, if you want to become a man, then you must need to develop these 10 masculine qualities in yourself.

Some boys are strong, some boys are average, and some boys are weak.

But it doesn’t matter how much strong a boy is; he can never achieve his goals and become a truly masculine man if he doesn’t have the willingness to learn, focus and conquer.

Let’s learn about ten qualities you need to develop to become a man.

1. Have a Clear Vision of Yourself
2. Never Give Up Attitude
3. Commitment Minded
4. Leadership Quality
5. Master your Emotions (Do not get Manipulated by Anyone)
6. Winning Attitude
7. Be Tough Talk Rough
8. Prioritizing Health and Fitness
9. Not being Addicted to Anything
10. Love Yourself/Respect Others

10 Masculine Qualities you need to have as a Men:

1. Have a Clear Vision of Yourself:

You have a clear vision of yourself, understand what type of a man you are and, what is your goals, how you will achieve your goals. Work for your goals to turn them into a reality by investing all your time and efforts.

Work for your goals and have a clear mindset about what you need from your life because if you pursue a different mindset at a single time, you will be lost in the game. So make sure you have a clear mindset for your goals and work for them.

2. Never Give up Attitude:

You have to develop a never give up attitude, make yourself a strong man, and help yourself with whatever you want to achieve in your life.

No matter whether it’s in the fight, life goals, competition, or anything else, do not give up; believe in yourself and keep going whatever it takes.

Never give up attitude will make you unstoppable, and it helps you go after your goals with full strength.

3. Commitment Minded:

If you commit, you must fulfill your commitment no matter what. Train yourself to fulfill all your commitments and achieve your goals.

As a man, you have to be committed to your words, take action to fulfill your commitments no matter what, and be commitment-minded.

4. Leadership Quality:

A man with leadership qualities will always have the upper hand in everything. This is why you must need to develop leadership quality in you.

Leadership Qualities include teamwork, communication, integrity, Self-awareness, Gratitude, learning agility, influence, empathy, etc.

You have to be a person people can look out for inspiration, and you have to influence people around you in a positive way.

5. Master your Emotions (Do not get Manipulated by Anyone):

As a man, you must master your emotions and learn to keep your emotions in control so that no one in your life can ever manipulate you.

Mastering your emotions will help you win each battle and the greatest wars of your life without a second doubt in yourself.

6. Winning Attitude:

Develop a winning attitude in yourself no matter what; work hard to win, push yourself to win, and think like a winner.

Winners don’t make excuses for anything, no matter the circumstances; they always find a way to win in everything.

You can create a life you want by developing a positive attitude in yourself; all you have to do is just believe in yourself and keep going on.

7. Be Tough, Talk Rough:

You must train yourself to become tough because that describes your power, and you must learn to communicate roughly when necessary.

Train yourself hard and push harder to become strong and good at the vision you see for yourself.

Make yourself comfortable with struggle, pain, focus, fight, etc., and every difficult situation in this world so you can easily encounter all your obstacles.

8. Prioritizing Health and Fitness:

Prioritize health and fitness to become stronger. Do not eat unhealthy food or drinks; exercise daily with yoga and go to the gym.

Become a health and fitness conscious of keeping your body in shape and creating a better version of yourself as a man.

Avoid any addiction like alcohol, smoking, marijuana, etc., to better care for your physical and mental health.

9. Not being Addicted to anything:

A man who is addicted often ends up having a miserable life and procrastinates a lot which is why you need to avoid addiction and eliminate it if you have any.

Cutting down addiction will help you to focus on the goals that you want to achieve in your life and create a better life for yourself.

As we see today in this modern world, I often find men are addicted to chasing women, drinking alcohol, consuming drugs, etc., affecting society.

10. Love Yourself/Respect Others:

Love yourself and think that you are the best; as long as you love yourself, no one in this world can second doubt you.

Learn to respect others so that you can influence the others around you but prioritize yourself first. Do not lose your self-respect just to respect others.

“You are the main character of your life, so treat yourself well.”

8Aug, 2022

Lessons to Learn for Boys to Become a Man

I meet many young boys who come to me and seek advice because they have wasted several years of their lives doing nothing.

Many boys nowadays don’t have a strong role model that can help them understand what society is all about and how to become a man.

I have seen many boys falling into the trap of frustration, depression, stress, and mental illness because of not getting the right advice from their surroundings.

Why does this happen??

Because of the toxic environment, no challenges, feminine perspective of life, no strong male role model, lack of guidance, no winning attitude, etc.

A lot of boys are so busy supporting females and feminism that they lose focus on growing with their masculinity.

I don’t say that all girls/women are wrong, but you have to understand the difference between High-quality girls and Low-quality girls.
Remember,

THE ENERGY YOU WASTE ON CONNECTING WITH LOW-QUALITY GIRLS DAMAGES YOUR MASCULINITY.

Let’s be clear here about why I have decided to discuss all this over here: as a boy/man, you must understand your responsibilities as a man.

A boy who can not manage himself is never going to manage anything at all…
Your journey to become a man is not so easy because its the most difficult transformation that you have to do for yourself.

Women are born, and Men are Made.

And to become a Man, you have to learn the lessons that help you to become a man

Lessons for boys to become a Man:

1. Set the standard Goals for yourself
2. Focus on Goals
3. Reading Books
4. Hitting the Gym
5. Cutting down all the Toxic Relations
6. Prioritize yourself
7. Learn New Skills
8. Challenge yourself every day with Difficult Tasks
9. Conquer all your Fears
10. Become a Monster

1. Set the standard goals for yourself:

The First step to becoming a man is to set the standard goals for yourself that keep challenging you and make you unstoppable because this is what man does. Don’t set goals that are too easy to achieve; this is a sign that you are too weak to become a man.

Setting standard goals for yourself helps you to become much stronger in a journey to achieve it. Your goals are something that can help you to become a man.

Do not think of yourself lower, weaker, or average guy if you want to become a man.

“Always think of yourself as a Monster/Roaring lion that can achieve anything and conquer everything in this world.”

2. Focus on your Goals:

Write your goals on your wall, in your journal, on your phone, in your daily notes, etc., so that you can keep reminding yourself that you have to achieve this no matter what. This way, you can remain focused on fulfilling your goals.

“There are too many distractions in this world, but one who ignores all these distractions and remains focused on their goals are the true monsters.”

No matter what type of distractions and challenges you encounter, you have to train yourself to remain focused on your goals and never give up!

3. Reading Books:

One of the biggest life lessons I have learned is from the books. And I guarantee you books give humans a superpower of intelligence that helps them achieve their goals easily. One of the biggest life lessons that I have learned from reading books is…

“Saying “no” to the world can be really hard, but sometimes it’s the only way to say “yes” to your art and your sanity.”

On your way to becoming a man, books will help you become the man that society wants and help you to learn important life lessons.

4. Hitting the Gym:

In a journey to become a man from a boy, you need to be strong physically because that is something that can emerge your mascunality. Hit the gym and keep your body in shape and become stronger physically, but remember to keep your body in shape.

“Without going to the gym, you can not be able to become a strong man, so like it or not this is what you have to do.”

You don’t have to become a bodybuilder, but you just have to keep your body in shape and become a physically strong individual.

5. Cutting down all the Toxic Relations:

Cut down all the toxic relationships, whether it’s your friends, girlfriend, relatives, or even your close ones. The toxic relations make you suffer from the pain that damages your inner happiness and physical health.

You have to understand that no one in this life is more important than yourself because everyone stays because of their own needs from you. So, cut down all the toxic relations and make your life healthier.

“A healthy relationship doesn’t drag you down. It Inspires you to be better.”

6. Prioritize yourself:

Prioritize your needs, your comfort, your life, your goals, etc., in short, prioritize yourself always because as long as you know your value, no one in the world can use you for their needs and disappear from your life when they are done with you.

Prioritizing yourself will help you to understand how much potential you have to achieve your goals, so keep going and make yourself proud.
Remember the famous web series suits quote from Harvey specter,

“Ever loved someone so much, that you would do anything for them? Yeah, well, make that person yourself and do whatever the hell you want.”

7. Learn New Skills:

Learn new skills that help you to grow as an individual. There are so many men learning and improving new skills everyday and if you want to stand out in the market, you must keep up with the competition by learning new skills and improving your skills.

Spare some extra time from your routine to learn a new skill so that you can easily level up your skills as an individual and enhance your power as a man.

8. Challenge yourself every day with Difficult Tasks:

Set difficult tasks for yourself and challenge yourself to achieve those tasks within the deadline. Make sure you set difficult tasks every day for yourself so that you can improve yourself and level up each day by achieving those difficult tasks.

Challenges help you to become a strong man and learn something new from each challenge; this is why challenges are always important for us as a man.

“Challenge yourself with difficult tasks and fight back. Be brutal, be tough.”

9. Conquer all your Fears:

You need to overcome the fear of anything you have as a man, conquer all your fear and become an unstoppable beast. If you can overcome fear, you can achieve any battle or war that you have encountered in the first place.

Remove the word fear from your dictionary and become an unstoppable beast by acquiring the energy of manliness.

“Dangers bring fears, and fears bring more dangers.”

10. Become a Monster:

Become a Monster in almost everything that you do, don’t stop until the job gets done by you. Becoming a monster helps you get the job done more easily and easily conquer all the tasks you have at hand.

You have to become a deadly monster to achieve your goals, and this is how you will turn into a man from boy, so remember to be focused on your goals and keep going no matter what…

“There is a monster sleeping in all of us; wake him up.”

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